Dating Techniques

David Deangelo, well known “dating Guru” from Double Your Dating, recently interviewed Payton Kane, radio show host and owner of Seduce and Conquer. David Deangelo’s interview series is famous for his various interviewees, a list of whom includes the famous Style (Neil Strauss), Grant Adams, Carlos Xuma and many other major PUA’s in the dating arena. David Deangelo’s Double Your Dating site is famous for his Cocky Comedy and down to earth dating tips and advice for men.
David Deangelo’s interview with Payton Kane was brimming with tons of helpful tips for guys looking for some killer dating advice. One of the first things that Kane reveals is a simple little trick about approaching hot women. He says to approach hot women as if they are “Ugly Bush Pigs” (his words, not mine!). The entire concept behind this “deception” is that men have no trouble approaching women they are not attracted to. Adding the factor of desire is what makes the approach difficult. Payton says the entire theory is based upon the tried and true adage that “When you want them, they don’t want you. When you don’t want them, they want you.” This concept is affectionately called the “Balls Factor” by Kane, and using the technique of picturing them as undesirable will enable the man to get the balls to approach her.
Kane reveals to David Deangelo that there are three factors that greatly affect a man’s initial approach to women. The first factor is the way he dresses, the second is the way a man talks, and the third is his body language. Kane says if you learn how to master these three things, you will never again have trouble approaching a woman. The dress factor, or looking good, actually has nothing to do with “looks”, it means that you need to learn how to dress yourself to maximize your features and make you look more attractive. Another tip Kane gives to maximize your appearance is to get a tan. Tans make you look healthy, rigorous and active, and these attributes are appealing to women of every level. The way a man talks means that a man should make every attempt to sound intelligent, but above all – charismatic! Convey that you are excited about being you, and she should be too. Body language is important because body language conveys confidence, attitude and status in every move you make.
Kane tells Deangelo that the worst thing a man can do when trying to get a woman’s interest is compliment her. He believes that once a woman knows that she can get you (which giving her a compliment will relate that to her) then she immediately loses interest and is looking for a bigger challenge from someone else.
So how does the average guy keep the attention or get the attention of hot women? Kane gives the listener several methods. The first method goes back to the “interest” factor. If a man communicates interest in a woman, she perceives him as easy prey and loses interest. Why is this? It all comes back to STATUS. Women are biologically engineered to look for status in a partner. If he is submissive – i.e. – complimenting her, chasing her, wanting her – then he is lower status than she is. However, if he is higher status, if she has to chase him to get him, if she has to conform to his life and his wants, then he is higher status and therefore worthwhile for her to pursue. One way a man can convey higher status is simply by communicating disinterest when he first sees her. Kane says, “Rejection is really on of the keys to getting laid”. Do this by breaking eye contact with her before she can break contact with you. Give her a look of amusement or mild disdain. Walk away. If she talks to her, talk to her for a bit, and then dismiss her. Tell her to go away! Then watch as she stews in it and can’t help herself from coming back for more!
Eventually, of course, you will allow her into your presence. One of David Deangelo’s key elements to develop attraction with a woman is to tease a woman (playfully) and use his Cocky & Funny techniques. Payton Kane also encourages this, busting on the girls and having a good time with her once you have her attention. Kane adds to this theory, though, adding a seduction element to David Deangelo’s method that he feels are essential to seducing women.
One of these techniques is the “hair pull”. Plain and simply, Kane recommends getting your hands into a woman’ hair as early on in the game as possible. One of the laws of attraction again is that the woman wants a dominant male. Using the hair pull technique is another method of demonstrating alpha-male status. The hair pull technique simply involves getting your hands in the back of a woman’s hair and pulling it, gently of course, but with “command”. Pull her back and kiss her, or pull her back and tease her then release her to create attraction.
Kane has dozens of other dating tips and treasures that he gives to the subscribers of David Deangelo’s interview series. If you are interested in becoming a subscriber, you can get David’s e-book on my site, and get the interview series free for the first 30 days along with that on my site.

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You’re talking, having a drink with her, what next.

This is where a lot of guys screw up royally. They did all the cool stuff to make the girl feel at ease and not threatened. They got her to talk and open up to them. They are having a good time. How do you take this to the next level.

She needs to know where she stands. She may just consider you a potential friend ,whereas you consider yourself to be her future red hot lover. This needs to be cleared up right at the beginning. The best way to do this is to move the conversation onto her and make it clear that you find her attractive and desirable. This is tricky stuff and you need to evaluate each situation on the merits of the preceding conversation.

Say something like “Did I mention that I think you look absolutely lovely and sexy in that shade of blue/gray whatever” Girls are just as insecure as us guys and love to hear that they are sexy. You have complimented her, shown that you are observant, and noticed that she is sexy. In a hidden sort of way, you have indicated your future intentions. this way you can get from chatting to asking for a date. If things went really swimmingly, you can say something like “If this wasn’t a public place, I could ravish you right now” Just be aware that if you read her wrong, a bold statement like that can crash you so fast you won’t know what hit you. If it does work, you have definitely moved into the fast lane in this relationship.

Only if she doesn’t start protesting or making excuses, do you move to the next step or close. If she does not respond favorably, be aware that a friendship may very well be the only thing on the cards. If she responds with a smile and openness, do a test or two.

Stroke her hair out of her face, brush her cheek, as if by mistake etc. She might even respond by touching your hand briefly, fluttering her eyelids or some such gesture.

All things being OK, its time to close.

Usually this means getting a phone number, or a commitment to a date there and then. If you are really lucky, maybe you leave with her, go to another venue or such.

Nonchalantly ask how you may continue this fascinating conversation, won’t she put her phone number into your phone. Then try it right there and then. If she is interested, you will know, if not at least you won’t be messed around.

If you are really confident, ask her to go with you and have coffee or a drink somewhere. If she says yes, you are on your first date and you take it from there.

Following these tips above will do a few things for you.

You will know where you stand one way or another. If she messes around, you know not to waste time, and can focus your efforts elsewhere.

If everything works out, you have efficiently moved yourself into the dating game

Congratulations Casanova, happy loving.

Udo Vieth
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