David Deangelo, well known “dating Guru” from Double Your Dating, recently interviewed Payton Kane, radio show host and owner of Seduce and Conquer.

David Deangelo’s interview series is famous for his various interviewees, a list of whom includes the famous Style (Neil Strauss), Grant Adams, Carlos Xuma and many other major PUA’s in the dating arena.

David Deangelo’s Double Your Dating site is famous for his Cocky Comedy and down to earth dating tips and advice for men.

David Deangelo’s interview with Payton Kane was brimming with tons of helpful tips for guys looking for some killer dating advice. One of the first things that Kane reveals is a simple little trick about approaching hot women. He says to approach hot women as if they are “Ugly Bush Pigs” (his words, not mine!).

The entire concept behind this “deception” is that men have no trouble approaching women they are not attracted to. Adding the factor of desire is what makes the approach difficult. Payton says the entire theory is based upon the tried and true adage that “When you want them, they don’t want you.

When you don’t want them, they want you.” This concept is affectionately called the “Balls Factor” by Kane, and using the technique of picturing them as undesirable will enable the man to get the balls to approach her.
Kane reveals to David Deangelo that there are three factors that greatly affect a man’s initial approach to women. The first factor is the way he dresses, the second is the way a man talks, and the third is his body language.

Kane says if you learn how to master these three things, you will never again have trouble approaching a woman. The dress factor, or looking good, actually has nothing to do with “looks”, it means that you need to learn how to dress yourself to maximize your features and make you look more attractive. Another tip Kane gives to maximize your appearance is to get a tan.

Tans make you look healthy, rigorous and active, and these attributes are appealing to women of every level. The way a man talks means that a man should make every attempt to sound intelligent, but above all – charismatic! Convey that you are excited about being you, and she should be too. Body language is important because body language conveys confidence, attitude and status in every move you make.

Kane tells Deangelo that the worst thing a man can do when trying to get a woman’s interest is compliment her. He believes that once a woman knows that she can get you (which giving her a compliment will relate that to her) then she immediately loses interest and is looking for a bigger challenge from someone else.

So how does the average guy keep the attention or get the attention of hot women? Kane gives the listener several methods. The first method goes back to the “interest” factor. If a man communicates interest in a woman, she perceives him as easy prey and loses interest. Why is this? It all comes back to STATUS. Women are biologically engineered to look for status in a partner.

If he is submissive – i.e. – complimenting her, chasing her, wanting her – then he is lower status than she is. However, if he is higher status, if she has to chase him to get him, if she has to conform to his life and his wants, then he is higher status and therefore worthwhile for her to pursue.

One way a man can convey higher status is simply by communicating disinterest when he first sees her. Kane says, “Rejection is really on of the keys to getting laid”. Do this by breaking eye contact with her before she can break contact with you. Give her a look of amusement or mild disdain. Walk away. If she talks to her, talk to her for a bit, and then dismiss her.

Tell her to go away! Then watch as she stews in it and can’t help herself from coming back for more!
Eventually, of course, you will allow her into your presence. One of David Deangelo’s key elements to develop attraction with a woman is to tease a woman (playfully) and use his Cocky & Funny techniques.

Payton Kane also encourages this, busting on the girls and having a good time with her once you have her attention. Kane adds to this theory, though, adding a seduction element to David Deangelo’s method that he feels are essential to seducing women.

One of these techniques is the “hair pull”. Plain and simply, Kane recommends getting your hands into a woman’ hair as early on in the game as possible. One of the laws of attraction again is that the woman wants a dominant male. Using the hair pull technique is another method of demonstrating alpha-male status.

The hair pull technique simply involves getting your hands in the back of a woman’s hair and pulling it, gently of course, but with “command”. Pull her back and kiss her, or pull her back and tease her then release her to create attraction.
Kane has dozens of other dating tips and treasures that he gives to the subscribers of David Deangelo’s interview series. If you are interested in becoming a subscriber, you can get David’s e-book on my site, and get the interview series free for the first 30 days along with that on my site.

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In a new trend, singles are becoming increasingly frustrated with internet dating. In spite of millions of singles using the internet and the promises and success stories of online matchmaking websites, I’ve heard the same thing over and over from singles across the country who are frustrated with internet dating-

“It’s great to have a lot of choices, but it takes a lot of time and I don’t seem to meet anyone I have much chemistry with.”

This makes sense to me. In some ways, using a computer to find your soul mate is like trying to cook a souffle in a microwave. Some things just require time, effort, and the human touch.

This article explores the upsides and downsides of internet dating, attempts to explain why internet dating is frustrating for some singles, and suggests alternatives.

Top Five Advantages of Internet Dating

1. Reach more singles

2. Inexpensive (relatively)

3. Enough information available for efficient sorting

4. Anonymous

5. Easy to control most aspects of the process

Top Five Downsides of Internet Dating

1. Overwhelming number of choices

2. Encourages “shopping” mentality

3. Many users are less than truthful

4. Some users are game players, predators. cheaters

5. Complacency- tempting to rely on the internet and exclude other options

The Internet, Chemistry, and the Law of Attraction

Today’s singles seem to be relying on their computer a bit too much and complacently expecting the internet to deliver their soul mate. This is a version of the Fairytale Trap (one of fourteen dating traps in my book “Conscious Dating”). The internet is a wonderful tool (I use it!) but doesn’t seem to work effectively as the only tool for finding potential partners.

I believe that the two biggest reasons why the internet isn’t effective for many singles is the role of chemistry and the Law of Attraction.

Chemistry is critically important for a successful relationship. Everyone wants a partner they feel strong chemistry with, and a relationship would be pretty dry and unsustainable without it. The Fourth Principle of Conscious Dating is “Balance Your Heart With Your Head.” Identifying your requirements, needs, and wants does not minimize the need for chemistry. You need both! I like to think of chemistry as the radar that helps you find your target, then you use your requirements, needs and wants to decide “yes” or “no.”

The Law of Attraction is inescapable and either works for you or against you. If you’re “busy” or “shy” and the internet is your only means of reaching potential partners, in a way you’re hiding behind your computer and the Law of Attraction is not likely to help you. The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like” and “energy follows attention,” meaning your results reflect your thoughts and your actions. Over the years I’ve become convinced that the Law of Attraction is a powerful law of the Universe, like gravity. Just like “what goes up must come down,” try as you might, you can’t avoid or change the principle that “like attracts like.”

If you’re hiding behind your computer, what people, relationships, and results are you likely to attract?

Top Five Ways to Supplement High Tech with High Touch

1. Use your support community

Most people find their soul mate through someone they know, so don’t be a lone ranger (another dating trap!) and lean on your friends, family, co-workers, and neighbors to assist you to meet potential partners.

2. Start a dating pool or networking group

Get a group of singles together (any gender mix) to support each other to meet potential partners. Most singles know lots of other singles of both genders, so pool your resources and do some matchmaking for each other!

3. Reach out to people

In today’s busy world with cell phones, texting, instant messaging, e-mail, and the internet promoting impersonal ways of interacting with others, it’s easy to forget the lost art of engaging with real people that are right in front of you. Make an effort to reach out to the people you come into contact with in your everyday life and watch your relationships blossom.

4. Make more friends

Since most people find their soul mate through someone they know, be open to developing new friendships and expanding your support community. Chances are you already have acquaintances at work and other places that you would enjoy spending more time with. Friends are easier to find than dates, and friendships often last longer than romantic relationships!

5. Get involved

Too many singles lead isolated lives centered around work, home, and a few friends. Participating in clubs, groups, classes, charities, church/temple, is the most important way you can leverage the Law of Attraction to help you find your soul mate. You’ll meet new people, make new friends, and pursue hobbies and interests important to you that bring you in contact with other compatible singles.

It’s All About Relationships

Technology can help us in many ways. Online dating is a wonderful tool that allows you to leverage your time and meet many more people than you could otherwise. However, let’s not forget that humans are social beings and finding your life partner is a relationship goal that is probably more effectively acheived by getting away from your computer as well as using it. You’re more likely to find relationship fulfillment by living a full, rich life among real people doing the things you enjoy that make your life meaningful.

As the ancient Roman playwright Terence once said- “Moderation in all things.” Do you think he meant the internet as well?

David Steele

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